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I was sure to build up what I call “relationship equity” with all my resourceful friends simply by being generous. Maybe I’d need their help later on in life. It’s not about “favours for favours.” A magnanimous mindset with your friends and network can help you reap tangible rewards in the future.

Because the more you know, the more prepared you’ll be for any situation — and the easier you’ll find it to attract girls, and make one of them your girlfriend. And remember, this stuff isn’t set in stone.

And a girl who is interested in you and thinks that you don’t want to have sex with her will be furious indeed. It may also lead her to assume you don’t have the guts.

But over time, this can become suffocating and your social life takes the hit. This becomes especially evident whenever a relationship ends and the man has lost contact with most of his friends and has to start again from scratch.

9 – Ask Some Friends For Help

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• Suggest fun dates, discuss exclusivity and eventually ask her to be your girlfriend.
• Most of the time, if asking out a girl goes wrong, it’s because it was rushed, or happened too soon.
• If you’re able to constantly pull surprises out of the bag, you’ll keep her fascinated.
• (You’ll discover how to keep her hooked and get a date).
• The more women you approach, the more likely you are to find ‘the one’ – it’s the logic of conversion.

I know, it’s a big step, but it’s a crucial one. It’s much easier to meet people when you leave your house. Yet, for the most part when you meet a woman, if you want her to be your girlfriend, then get to a first kiss, have sex with her, start dating and you’ll naturally get into a relationship with her. If you’re looking to turn that woman into your girlfriend, then you’ll need to be interesting enough to want her to get to know you more.

You’ll have to explore certain details for yourself whether it’s through me or not. We’re NOT changing the world here and it’s obvious since the beginning of time men have managed to land some pretty amazing and yes beautiful women too.

Some of the tactics above can backfire big-time. Start a list with the girl you like about the things you have in common.

It has NOTHING to do with you and your relationships (or lack there of) and it’s a total waste of time to think negatively about it or them. We look at the girl, we see the guy she’s with, and we automatically assume he must be a jerk – and we don’t even know him, her, or how the relationship even got started. #11 Be ready to commit.

-When you’re chatting up a woman, make her laugh. Girls like people who have a good sense of humor, and the key to having a good sense of humor is to be lighthearted and unabashedly yourself. -Odds are you’ll find lots of women attractive, and the majority of them will have no interest in you.